14th October 2025
When parents separate, one of the hardest questions is: “What happens to the children?” Emotions run high, and uncertainty can make an already difficult time even more stressful.
A Child Arrangement Order (CAO) can provide clarity and stability for your family when you need it most.
Sarah Johnson, Solicitor in our Family Law team at Myers & Co, explains how CAOs work, who can apply, and what steps to take to protect your child’s wellbeing.
A Child Arrangement Order is a legally binding decision made by the family court under the Children Act 1989. It sets out:
CAOs replaced residence and contact orders in 2014. They usually last until your child turns 16 (or 18 in exceptional cases).
Parents and anyone with parental responsibility can apply directly.
Grandparents, step-parents, or other relatives may also apply, but they often need the court’s permission first.
If you’re unsure whether you qualify, our Family Law team can guide you through your options.
Not always. Before applying, most people must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) unless there’s an exemption, such as domestic abuse.
Courts encourage mediation because it’s quicker, less stressful, and better for children. If mediation isn’t possible, the court will step in to make a decision based on your child’s best interests.
The court’s priority is your child’s welfare. Judges use a welfare checklist, considering:
The court will only make an order if it’s better for your child than making no order at all.
If a parent breaches the order, you can apply for enforcement. The court may:
If you’re facing a breach, speak to us early, our team is on hand to protect you and your child’s stability.
Every family is different, and every child deserves security and care during separation. A Child Arrangement Order can provide that structure, but the process can feel daunting without the right support.
At Myers & Co, we make things clear and easy to understand. We’ll explain your options in plain English, guide you through mediation or court steps, and keep your child’s wellbeing at the heart of every decision.
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